225 South Meramec
Suite 432T
Clayton, MO 63105​


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Resolving problems and seeing the light through divorce mediation in St Louis, MO

John Borders has provided and supervised clinical care for children, parents, and families for more than 20 years.

He specializes in:

  • Parent-child relation problems
  • Divorce-related parent conflict
  • Families

Telephone Consultation

I’m happy to answer questions, discuss specific situations, and suggest possible plans of action. Just leave a message on my private voicemail and I will do my best to return your call the same day. (There is no charge for preliminary discussions.) In divorce-related situations, it is necessary for me to speak with both parents before scheduling any meetings with either parent.

  • All information is held in strict confidence. 
  • Unless there are safety concerns, information is not shared with family members, the courts, or others. 
  • Clients are asked to agree that they will not request access to any documents, or subpoena any records or testimony.​


I am not an in-network provider although you may submit claims to your insurance company for reimbursement. Note that insurance companies require a formal diagnosis of mental illness and typically do not cover divorce-related issues. Also, no parent facing possible litigation wants to be the one who goes into court with a mental health diagnosis.

John Borders provides professional guidance as a Divorce Mediator, Co-Parenting Counselor, Parenting Coordinator, Collaborative Coach, or Clinical Psychotherapist.

Divorce Mediation in St Louis, MO